Actually - after lurking around here over the years I don't really have any expectations. In all that time the biggest fun came to me quite naturally.
I have been off and on staying in Berlin throughout the last years. Friends have moved, things have changed and I as much as I enjoy the company of my colleauges I am not so intrigued by joining them for a night out. I have to admit - in some sense I feel a bit too old for that.
Anyways - still I am curious and would like to re-explore certain dancefloors.
To be honest - I enjoy myself a lot and do not necessary look for sex these days. I feel quite confident with what I have and prefer to keep it natural without harnesses, lingerie and whatever the algorithm advertises as the new sexpositive standard.
As someone working for many years in night clubs I enjoyed the whole concept of temporary connections as an observer, but mainly I kept it professional and took care of my job.
Surely I daydream, sometimes more, sometimes less and I have some specific fantasies and desires. But for now I am looking for the excitement of getting to now each other while indulge in joyful play. Rather than onedimensional satisfaction.
See you on the dancefloor 🪩